The long-term impact of bad eating habits From childhood to adulthood….

“Let food be thy medicine, and let medicine be thy food.”~ Hippocrates.
The things we are craving for now or at this age has a greater influence/impact on your future lives. Do you believe this??
Believe it or not, it has impact on your physical health as well mental health.
In older days, from birth onwards, there was a kind of order in taking liquid to solid foods.

A child will be taking liquid food like breast milk in the first stage, and then semi-liquid like rice powder/raagi “kurukk”, finally once he/she can take solid food, will be treated with rice, wheat, etc. This was believed to be a tradition/custom in the older days. But it’s not merely some religious custom/godly influence; it is the stages of the food chain according to a human’s digestive system. The people who are elder will be guiding children in taking different kinds of leafy, seasonal fruits, and homely vegetables in older days. Thus, it was because of this, from childhood till adulthood, they were able to fight off diseases with their immune system.


All children and adolescents require healthy snacks and meals to sustain their growth and development. A nutrient-rich diet plays an essential role in your child’s mind and physical development. But, that doesn’t mean that your children should be fed with lots of food every time merely because he/she has to be healthy. Nutrient-rich means, for example, in “Anganwadi” we used to see a dish with a handful of different millets and pulses every day in different forms. Children were not fed with white sugar; rather they will be giving jaggery. And that too, in Kerala, taking meals from ICDS, is still considered as either tag of poor or will be given to the pets they looked after.

Eating behaviours ripen during the first years of life; children learn what, when, and how much to eat through direct experiences with food and by observing the eating behaviours of others. If we (adults) insist children eat healthily, where we are having pizza/burger every day, it can boomerang the effects. Children also learn about food by observing the eating behaviours modelled by others. For example, research reveals that children’s intake of fruits, vegetables, and milk increased after observing adults consuming the foods. Limiting their food supplies, due to being overweight or excessively feeding because of their underweight will mentally affect the children. As children grow older, their exposure to unhealthy food becomes threatening, forced mostly by improper marketing and advertising, the surplus of ultra-processed foods in places, and rising access to fast food and highly sweetened beverages.


Nowadays, “Meal skipping” is kind of a new culture that we used to see in new generations. They are not giving importance to meal orders for the day. They fancy skipping breakfast almost all the time and will take some processed foods going to school/college. Thus, in short, eating food and not eating food can cause severe physical situations. Eating too much food, particularly unhealthy food, puts your child at risk of being overweight and obese. An overweight or obese child is at an increased risk of type-2 diabetes, sleep apnoea, and hip and joint problems. Whereas, severe dieting can lead to health and other problems like fatigue, poor concentration, and loss of muscle mass and bone density.


Nowadays, parents/caregivers are also promoting fast food because of their time and work issues, for them, ordering a pizza/burger is the most time-saving one rather than, cooking rice and curry. Mentally, unhealthy diets and food insecurities can cause depression, emotional challenges, and struggles with peers. When diets are filled with sugars, caffeine, chemicals, and sodium, kids are left feeling tired, unfocused, and jittery, and are susceptible to sickness, which not only impacts students’ grades and performance but their behaviour and moods. Moods and foods often reflect each other, and as teens develop through puberty, emotions can restrain eating and eating can regulate emotions.

In some cases, teens engrossed in substance abuse also depict signs of eating disorders and mental health scrabble. The causes of child obesity & juvenile diabetes are complicated, ranging from poor eating habits to family history and trauma. Social coercion to hold a certain body shape also contributes to a higher risk of mental health problems. In some children, a poor diet may be accompanied by behavioural problems, sleep issues, problems with emotional and psychological development, and poor concentration or difficulties at school.


As long-term effects, in adulthood, they will continue to cling to these food habits that could cause, depression, lack of anger management, substance abuse & harassment, and obesity leading to diabetes and even can end up in cancer/tumours. Even, their moods can adversely affect and can cause severe mental issues.
The first lessons for everything are our family and home, including our eating habits. What a parent can do is ultimately based on their focus. Be a good role model, practice good eating habits & prepare healthier foods.


1.Don’t make ordering outside food or make eating out a habit.
2.Start encouraging healthy eating from a young.
3.Eat together as a family as often as you can.
4.Have fresh food available for them to snack on like fruits and vegetables.
5.Involve your child in planning meals, food purchasing, and preparation.


These could be the least things that you could do as a parent to your child’s eating habits. As with another wording of Hippocrates, there’s another statement about food, which reads: “In food excellent medicine can be found, in food bad medicine can be found; good and bad are relative.”

Anxiety

The leading cause of mental disability is now considered as Anxiety disorder. From the early years of the 21st century have glimpsed a worldwide epidemic of poor mental health and related illnesses. Even though, we have travelled a lot more in health concerns, mental health is still an out of our reach signal.

A typical question that i used to hear about is, anxiety is an important part of life, without anxiety we won’t be motivated enough to lead a better life… Really true, but there are instances, where anxiety can become worse and affect just opposite to what pointed earlier. The number of individuals experiencing mental illness around the world continues to grow. Occasional anxiety is a normal part of life. Many people worry about things such as health, money, or family problems. But anxiety disorders involve more than temporary worry or fear. For some ones with an anxiety disorder, the anxiety does not go away and can get worse over time. The symptoms can interfere with daily activities such as job performance, schoolwork, and relationships too.


Today, even children are exposed to Anxiety disorders, where some of them are affected with exposure to someone with Anxiety as well. At our time, we were only anxious about revealing low scores in exams to parents, not finishing homework and getting anxious on how to complete those before the first period bell, not disclosing that we had signed the exam paper with our parent’s signature!!

But today, era changed, time changed the mentality and the pressure children are facing increased. They are crippling under the unnecessary pressure from family, relatives, and even they are not being able to be truthful in friendship. It is really normal for children to be worried about different things, but same case as that of adults, if the scenarios are affecting their behaviour and thoughts every day, interfering with their school, home and social life, this is where parents should take a note.


The complaints I used to hear form parents is that, “he knows the answer very well, but he dropped that question without noticing”, “My child is really bright, she used to score full marks in maths, but now she is getting low marks and constantly worrying about herself, even though she is capable”…


These might be the first level symptoms of anxiety getting embarked on her/him. Anxiety may present as fear or worry, but can also make children cranky and furious. Anxiety symptoms can also comprise trouble sleeping, as well as physical symptoms like fatigue, headaches, or stomach aches. Some anxious children hold their worries to themselves and, thus, the symptoms can be missed.


Diagnosing anxiety will be different with everyone, because there are different types of anxiety disorders.
Examples of different types of anxiety disorders include
• Being very afraid of school and other places where there are people (social anxiety)
• Being very afraid when away from parents (separation anxiety)
• Having repeated episodes of sudden, unexpected, intense fear that come with symptoms like heart pounding, having trouble breathing, or feeling dizzy, shaky, or sweaty (panic disorder)
• Having extreme fear about a specific thing or situation, such as dogs, insects, or going to the doctor (phobias)
• Being very worried about the future and about bad things happening (general anxiety).

Parents usually ask to therapists, “Why it is happening to my child, is there any specific reasons?”
Well, experts believe anxiety disorders are caused by a combination of biological and environmental factors, similar to allergies and diabetes. Stressful circumstances such as starting school, moving, or the loss of a parent or grandparent can trigger the onset of an anxiety disorder, but stress itself does not cause an anxiety disorder.
Thus parents, above all, it’s important to talk to your child about their anxiety or worries. Many children at different ages may have anxieties that will go away after a while, with your reassurance. Other important things that a parent can do are:


• Stay calm when he becomes anxious about a situation or event.
• Recognize and praise her small accomplishments.
• Don’t punish mistakes or lack of progress.
• Be flexible and try to maintain a normal routine.
• Modify expectations during stressful periods.
• Plan for transitions (i.e. allow extra time in the morning if getting to school is difficult).


Being healthy is important for all children and can be especially important for children with anxiety. In addition to getting the right treatment, leading a healthy lifestyle can play a role in managing symptoms of anxiety, having healthy diet plan, charted sleeping patterns, participation in physical activities etc.

Teenagers and K pop Culture

Back when we were doing our schooling, the topics to discuss were Takeshi’s Castle, Tom, and Jerry, Brick game, etc. But now, topics changed and turned to one of the hottest subjects “K-pop” or Korean Pop Culture.
The development of the times escorted by the rapid development of technology completes many outside cultures that penetrate and are studied by Generation Z which is the contemporary generation and evolves with technology. K-pop culture involves styles and genres from around the world, such as pop, hip hop, R&B, experimental, rock, jazz, gospel, reggae, electronic dance, folk, country, disco, and classical on top of its traditional Korean music roots.
The golden question of this hour is “Are youngsters getting addicted to K-pop?”
Let us see a piece of news;
A 16-year-old girl in Kerala died by suicide on Saturday (June 4). In her suicide note, the girl blamed poor grades due to her addiction to K-pop videos and lack of friends as the reasons behind her suicide.
As a follow-up of the case, the WCD department gave warnings to the parents and youngsters, and also parents are increasingly bringing in their children for therapy due to the addition of K-pop music.

Before bluntly criticizing a particular media/culture/entertainment show, we can just closely analyze the other ways. There are quite possible ways for teenagers who watch

K-drama or K-pop to learn a new language and explore their food, respects, etc. The more teenagers respond that during the lockdown period, they started to watch K-drama, as a kind of stress buster, and they are continuing in between when they feel stressed with their studies.
What I am, as a narrator, trying to articulate is, that it is not about watching a Kdrama, that is affecting youngsters, but it is at the point where they start making it indulge in their lives.
The reasons they are getting obsessed are:
*Where some people don’t like social gatherings, there are several instances of K-pop or K-drama obsession leading to social isolation as fans spend more and more time-consuming content.
*One reason could be because K-pop or K-dramas are designed to provide short-lived excitement, a dose of dopamine, or an escape from reality.
* It could also be the age factor.
Watching Korean dramas can also have an impact on the daily behavior of generation Z, that behavior is a human act or activity that includes many things including reading, walking, crying, and laughing.K-style surprisingly attracted the teen audience and motivated them to imitate those styles. Peer Group Interactions also take an important role in K-Style imitation behavior. The necessity for being praised and accepted made their personality capricious and emotionally unstable.
Let us make it clear for people who are getting addicted or obsessed, it is their looks, the way project themselves, their dressings, etc. it’s not their ability to sing/dance/act. Youngsters who are fascinated by their abilities can be motivated to lead in life, but if it turns to fame, looks, dressings, etc, it would take them to another world. If you know about Korean culture, you might know that Korea is known as the plastic surgery capital of the world. They are crazy about how they look. They have strict rules about beauty standards.
Apart from all those factors also, Kdramas are being used to promote mental health, like “It’s ok, not to be ok”.Watching K-dramas has destroyed my desire to watch American content. I think the Koreans do drama so much better and the level I was just blown away when I first started watching a couple of months ago. Thus, it is okay to watch those rather than getting addicted or over-excited.